"You wouldn't be going through this situation if you didn't have a voice and yes you do have a voice, use it".
My life wouldn't be my life if there wasn't another minor problem. Or if there wasn't another situation for me to share. But for the most part, what I've learned about my situations is they come and go. Nothing is permanent. I met this guy name "My Best friend" because in the end he is becoming my best male friend. He is going through the same situation "My Ex" and I went through. The most advice I can give him is; when his to wait till his "waiting to exhale moment" comes. At that moment nothing else in the world won't matter. For male or female the "waiting to exhale moment" is when you can finally live your life with out thinking or having memorable thoughts of that person. Your heart will be at ease. Your mind body and soul will finally be settled. My waiting to exhale moment finally happened believed it or not after 2 years of being broken up with "My Ex". And it was that moment when everything that I felt about, him I didn't feel anymore. Anything I saw that reminded me of us, I didn't see. When I started to live and accept that fact that we are different and yet and still we have done hurt to each other, I can live and move on with someone else I know that won't put me in that same predicament. I must admit it took time to get me to my waiting exhale moment, but I'm happy I'm here. So where am I now? I'm letting things flow. Letting a lot of things I was holding onto to in life go. No one wants a broken hurt and no one wants trouble to follow you. Thinking about my new manager and the differences we have gone through, I'm letting things flow. At the end we are two different people from two different backgrounds. Things may or may not work out and even if they don't, just let it go. No sense of holding onto something that isn't serious. In the end the situation was a mis understanding. He felt me missing a meeting and trying to write me up for it was the right thing to do. I have never been written up in this company and as black woman I refuse to. I was scared and nervous. My Energy level with the universe was at a low again. So I did like any common sense person would do, I collected my resources and used them. Afterwards he apologized to me and I did as well. We let it go and decided as an management team to get better with things. I wish things could be that simple when it comes to relationships. I don't know why every time I start to date a guy, he wants to take me out my element. I been dating "this promoter guy" for a while. At first he was annoying but to be honest I only kept him around for the head. Long story short I have him my spare keys on a drunk night. Now I'm sitting here having to change my locks because I haven't gotten them back. "Silly her", you might be thinking. But I would rather be going through that then to be sitting here at a counselor session because I recently became a rape victim of New York City. With that being said, here is to you my reader with the shocking look on your face after that statement. I wasn't ready to share but, this might be the key to my "waiting to exhale moment" for it.